• Home
  • COLUMNS
  • Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Part 7

Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Part 7

Embodying and manifesting godly wisdom in the workplace
Yolanda Kalenga
Motherhood comes in different forms and last week we unpacked how Proverbs 31 as a professional woman relates to motherhood – (see Proverbs 31 as a professional woman, Part 6).

She uses godly wisdom to excel in success principle 5, which says: “She balances Genesis 1:28 with Genesis 3:15 while using the wisdom of Proverbs 14:1."

Life has taught her that she cannot exclusively pursue fruitfulness (Genesis 1:28) in the workplace while neglecting her child or children, because the enemy will use this gap in his battle against her children (Genesis 3:15). So, she relies on godly wisdom to pursue her career aspirations while building her home (Proverbs 14:1).

How does she do this?

Firstly, she surrenders her motherhood to God so that His wisdom can lead her (Proverbs 3:5-7, Romans 8:28, Jeremiah 29:11) and fulfil His plans and purposes for His children (Isaiah 55:8-12).

Secondly, she teaches her children that Elohim already blessed them to be great (Genesis 1:28, Jeremiah 1:5) and that what He has planned for them can only be revealed through Him (Proverbs 16:3) – see Proverbs 31as a professional woman, the introductory article that was published on 13 March.

Thirdly, she specifically teaches them about using godly wisdom in all circumstances, especially at school (see Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Part 1). She also teaches them about loving Him with their all, to have the fear of the Lord, as well as to love themselves in a healthy way (see Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Part 2).

She teaches them how to love other people and how to respond to difficult people (see Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Parts 3 and 4).

She models to them the essence of being present in one’s life (see Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Part 5).

Proverbs 31 as a professional woman lives in the revelation of God being her Heavenly Father (Romans 8:14-17, Ephesians 4:6) and she desires to also bring this revelation and relationship of divine Fatherhood to her children (see Proverbs 31 as a professional woman - Part 6).

How does she do all this?

She models what she wants to see in them and she also prays that God work in them “the desire and the power to do what pleases Him” (Philippians 2:13 NLT).

What are some of the practical steps to cultivate that desire and power in her children?

She teaches them that Elohim created them to know Him (John 17:20-23), to love Him (Mark 12:30) and to live a life of fellowship with Him (John 17:3, 2 Corinthians 5:18, 1 John 1:3).

How does she encourage them to know Him as Abba?

Deuteronomy 6:1-7 reminds her of her responsibility to teach God’s children about Him.

How does she do this?

She asks them to do bible study or watch the Superbook TV show (for the younger ones), then they must teach her what they learned about God and what they can apply in their lives from the specific story.

They are also taught to declare the 10 commandments in Exodus 20 as a prayer.

She reminds them that they are His children and they belong to Him through Jesus Christ (Ephesians 1:4-10, 2:19-22).

How does she encourage them to love Abba?

She tells them about her wonderful relationship with Abba and that He can only be found if they seek Him with their whole hearts (Jeremiah 29:13).

She encourages them to firstly talk to their Heavenly Father about anything – no matter how embarrassing – and that a specific prayer will be answered according to His will.

This teaches them to surrender to His will, builds confidence in their relationship and firms up their faith when He answers their prayers.

Additionally, she also asks them daily: “How did you experience your Heavenly Father’s love today? And how did you also show Him love today?”

This teaches them that Abba is relational and interested in receiving their love, whether expressed through prayer, praise, worship or Bible reading. With this approach, they don’t just pursue Him with a transactional mindset of what they need from Him, but it also encourages a personal relationship that involves their hearts.

How does she encourage them to fellowship with Abba?

She models the posture and a heart that desires and loves praying (Philippians 4:6-7, Mathew 6:6), praising and worshipping Him (John 4:24).

DISCLAIMER: Parenthood is a journey and the above are merely practical suggestions. May the Lord lead you according to His will, shalom.

*I welcome your comments, inputs, queries or concerns. Kindly address them to [email protected]

Comments

Namibian Sun 2024-09-22

No comments have been left on this article

Please login to leave a comment

Currie Cup: Fidelity ADT Lions 14 vs 16 Hollywoodbets Sharks XV Rugby Championship: Argentina 29 vs 28 Springboks | Australia 28 vs 31 New Zealand Premier League: Brighton 2 vs 2 Nottingham Forest | Crystal Palace 0 vs 0 Manchester United | Tottenham Hotspur 3 vs 1 Brentford | Southampton 1 vs 1 Ipswich Town | Liverpool 3 vs 0 Bournemouth | Leicester City 1 vs 1 Everton | Fulham 3 vs 1 Newcastle | Aston Villa 3 vs 1 Wolves | West Ham 0 vs 3 Chelsea LaLiga: Getafe 1 vs 1 Leganés | Real Madrid 4 vs 1 Espanyol | Valencia 2 vs 0 Girona | Osasuna 2 vs 1 Las Palmas | Real Valladolid 0 vs 0 Real Sociedad | Deportivo Alaves 2 vs 1 Sevilla | Leganés 0 vs 2 Athletic Club SerieA: Monza 1 vs 2 Bologna | Fiorentina 2 vs 1 SS Lazio | Lecce 2 vs 2 Parma | Juventus 0 vs 0 Napoli | Venezia 2 vs 0 Genoa | Hellas Verona 2 vs 3 Torino | Cagliari 0 vs 2 Empoli European Championships Qualifying: Preston North End 0 vs 0 Blackburn Rovers | West Bromwich Albion 1 vs 0 Plymouth Argyle | Sheffield United 1 vs 0 Derby County | Luton Town 2 vs 1 Sheffield Wednesday | Coventry City 1 vs 2 Swansea City | Cardiff City 0 vs 2 Leeds United | Burnley 2 vs 1 Portsmouth | Bristol City 2 vs 1 Oxford United | Sunderland 1 vs 0 Middlesbrough | Queens Park Rangers 1 vs 1 Millwall FC | Norwich City 4 vs 1 Watford | Stoke City 1 vs 3 Hull City English Championship: Preston North End 0 vs 0 Blackburn Rovers | West Bromwich Albion 1 vs 0 Plymouth Argyle | Sheffield United 1 vs 0 Derby County | Luton Town 2 vs 1 Sheffield Wednesday | Coventry City 1 vs 2 Swansea City | Cardiff City 0 vs 2 Leeds United | Burnley 2 vs 1 Portsmouth | Bristol City 2 vs 1 Oxford United | Sunderland 1 vs 0 Middlesbrough | Queens Park Rangers 1 vs 1 Millwall FC | Norwich City 4 vs 1 Watford | Stoke City 1 vs 3 Hull City F1: Singapore GP First:Lando Norris McLaren 01:40:53 Second:Max Verstappen Red Bull + 00:00:20.945 Third:Oscar Piastri McLaren + 00:00:41.823 Katima Mulilo: 18° | 34° Rundu: 21° | 35° Eenhana: 22° | 35° Oshakati: 22° | 35° Ruacana: 21° | 36° Tsumeb: 21° | 31° Otjiwarongo: 19° | 31° Omaruru: 18° | 33° Windhoek: 16° | 29° Gobabis: 17° | 30° Henties Bay: 13° | 22° Wind speed: 19km/h, Wind direction: S, Low tide: 07:45, High tide: 14:07, Low Tide: 20:11, High tide: 02:00 Swakopmund: 13° | 16° Wind speed: 18km/h, Wind direction: SW, Low tide: 07:43, High tide: 14:05, Low Tide: 20:09, High tide: 02:00 Walvis Bay: 12° | 23° Wind speed: 23km/h, Wind direction: SW, Low tide: 07:43, High tide: 14:04, Low Tide: 20:09, High tide: 02:00 Rehoboth: 17° | 31° Mariental: 19° | 34° Keetmanshoop: 20° | 35° Aranos: 17° | 33° Lüderitz: 14° | 22° Ariamsvlei: 19° | 35° Oranjemund: 15° | 24° Luanda: 22° | 23° Gaborone: 10° | 25° Lubumbashi: 19° | 33° Mbabane: 7° | 19° Maseru: 8° | 20° Antananarivo: 14° | 28° Lilongwe: 17° | 23° Maputo: 13° | 23° Windhoek: 16° | 29° Cape Town: 15° | 28° Durban: 12° | 23° Johannesburg: 9° | 21° Dar es Salaam: 23° | 32° Lusaka: 16° | 23° Harare: 12° | 26° Currency: GBP to NAD 23.26 | EUR to NAD 19.53 | CNY to NAD 2.48 | USD to NAD 17.5 | DZD to NAD 0.13 | AOA to NAD 0.02 | BWP to NAD 1.28 | EGP to NAD 0.35 | KES to NAD 0.14 | NGN to NAD 0.01 | ZMW to NAD 0.65 | ZWL to NAD 0.04 | BRL to NAD 3.16 | RUB to NAD 0.19 | INR to NAD 0.21 | USD to DZD 131.91 | USD to AOA 927.77 | USD to BWP 13.17 | USD to EGP 48.46 | USD to KES 128.48 | USD to NGN 1593.37 | USD to ZAR 17.42 | USD to ZMW 26.45 | USD to ZWL 321 | Stock Exchange: JSE All Share Index Same 0 | Namibian Stock Exchange (NSX) Overall Index 1831.97 Down -0.38% | Casablanca Stock Exchange (CSE) MASI 14246.86 Up +0.44% | Egyptian Exchange (EGX) 30 Index 30937.69 Up +1.96% | Botswana Stock Exchange (BSE) DCI 9651.25 Same 0 | NSX: MTC 7.75 SAME | Anirep 8.99 SAME | Capricorn Investment group 17.34 SAME | FirstRand Namibia Ltd 49 DOWN 0.50% | Letshego Holdings (Namibia) Ltd 4.1 UP 2.50% | Namibia Asset Management Ltd 0.7 SAME | Namibia Breweries Ltd 31.49 UP 0.03% | Nictus Holdings - Nam 2.22 SAME | Oryx Properties Ltd 12.1 UP 1.70% | Paratus Namibia Holdings 11.99 SAME | SBN Holdings 8.45 SAME | Trustco Group Holdings Ltd 0.48 SAME | B2Gold Corporation 47.34 DOWN 1.50% | Local Index closed 677.62 UP 0.12% | Overall Index closed 1534.6 DOWN 0.05% | Osino Resources Corp 19.47 DOWN 2.41% | Commodities: Gold US$ 2 622.23/OZ UP +1.35% | Copper US$ 4.31/lb DOWN -0.0032 | Zinc US$ 2 884.80/T DOWN -0.23% | Brent Crude Oil US$ 74.74/BBP DOWN -0.0019 | Platinum US$ 976.09/OZ DOWN -0.0067 Sport results: Currie Cup: Fidelity ADT Lions 14 vs 16 Hollywoodbets Sharks XV Rugby Championship: Argentina 29 vs 28 Springboks | Australia 28 vs 31 New Zealand Premier League: Brighton 2 vs 2 Nottingham Forest | Crystal Palace 0 vs 0 Manchester United | Tottenham Hotspur 3 vs 1 Brentford | Southampton 1 vs 1 Ipswich Town | Liverpool 3 vs 0 Bournemouth | Leicester City 1 vs 1 Everton | Fulham 3 vs 1 Newcastle | Aston Villa 3 vs 1 Wolves | West Ham 0 vs 3 Chelsea LaLiga: Getafe 1 vs 1 Leganés | Real Madrid 4 vs 1 Espanyol | Valencia 2 vs 0 Girona | Osasuna 2 vs 1 Las Palmas | Real Valladolid 0 vs 0 Real Sociedad | Deportivo Alaves 2 vs 1 Sevilla | Leganés 0 vs 2 Athletic Club SerieA: Monza 1 vs 2 Bologna | Fiorentina 2 vs 1 SS Lazio | Lecce 2 vs 2 Parma | Juventus 0 vs 0 Napoli | Venezia 2 vs 0 Genoa | Hellas Verona 2 vs 3 Torino | Cagliari 0 vs 2 Empoli European Championships Qualifying: Preston North End 0 vs 0 Blackburn Rovers | West Bromwich Albion 1 vs 0 Plymouth Argyle | Sheffield United 1 vs 0 Derby County | Luton Town 2 vs 1 Sheffield Wednesday | Coventry City 1 vs 2 Swansea City | Cardiff City 0 vs 2 Leeds United | Burnley 2 vs 1 Portsmouth | Bristol City 2 vs 1 Oxford United | Sunderland 1 vs 0 Middlesbrough | Queens Park Rangers 1 vs 1 Millwall FC | Norwich City 4 vs 1 Watford | Stoke City 1 vs 3 Hull City English Championship: Preston North End 0 vs 0 Blackburn Rovers | West Bromwich Albion 1 vs 0 Plymouth Argyle | Sheffield United 1 vs 0 Derby County | Luton Town 2 vs 1 Sheffield Wednesday | Coventry City 1 vs 2 Swansea City | Cardiff City 0 vs 2 Leeds United | Burnley 2 vs 1 Portsmouth | Bristol City 2 vs 1 Oxford United | Sunderland 1 vs 0 Middlesbrough | Queens Park Rangers 1 vs 1 Millwall FC | Norwich City 4 vs 1 Watford | Stoke City 1 vs 3 Hull City F1: Singapore GP First:Lando Norris McLaren 01:40:53 Second:Max Verstappen Red Bull + 00:00:20.945 Third:Oscar Piastri McLaren + 00:00:41.823 Weather: Katima Mulilo: 18° | 34° Rundu: 21° | 35° Eenhana: 22° | 35° Oshakati: 22° | 35° Ruacana: 21° | 36° Tsumeb: 21° | 31° Otjiwarongo: 19° | 31° Omaruru: 18° | 33° Windhoek: 16° | 29° Gobabis: 17° | 30° Henties Bay: 13° | 22° Wind speed: 19km/h, Wind direction: S, Low tide: 07:45, High tide: 14:07, Low Tide: 20:11, High tide: 02:00 Swakopmund: 13° | 16° Wind speed: 18km/h, Wind direction: SW, Low tide: 07:43, High tide: 14:05, Low Tide: 20:09, High tide: 02:00 Walvis Bay: 12° | 23° Wind speed: 23km/h, Wind direction: SW, Low tide: 07:43, High tide: 14:04, Low Tide: 20:09, High tide: 02:00 Rehoboth: 17° | 31° Mariental: 19° | 34° Keetmanshoop: 20° | 35° Aranos: 17° | 33° Lüderitz: 14° | 22° Ariamsvlei: 19° | 35° Oranjemund: 15° | 24° Luanda: 22° | 23° Gaborone: 10° | 25° Lubumbashi: 19° | 33° Mbabane: 7° | 19° Maseru: 8° | 20° Antananarivo: 14° | 28° Lilongwe: 17° | 23° Maputo: 13° | 23° Windhoek: 16° | 29° Cape Town: 15° | 28° Durban: 12° | 23° Johannesburg: 9° | 21° Dar es Salaam: 23° | 32° Lusaka: 16° | 23° Harare: 12° | 26° Economic Indicators: Currency: GBP to NAD 23.26 | EUR to NAD 19.53 | CNY to NAD 2.48 | USD to NAD 17.5 | DZD to NAD 0.13 | AOA to NAD 0.02 | BWP to NAD 1.28 | EGP to NAD 0.35 | KES to NAD 0.14 | NGN to NAD 0.01 | ZMW to NAD 0.65 | ZWL to NAD 0.04 | BRL to NAD 3.16 | RUB to NAD 0.19 | INR to NAD 0.21 | USD to DZD 131.91 | USD to AOA 927.77 | USD to BWP 13.17 | USD to EGP 48.46 | USD to KES 128.48 | USD to NGN 1593.37 | USD to ZAR 17.42 | USD to ZMW 26.45 | USD to ZWL 321 | Stock Exchange: JSE All Share Index Same 0 | Namibian Stock Exchange (NSX) Overall Index 1831.97 Down -0.38% | Casablanca Stock Exchange (CSE) MASI 14246.86 Up +0.44% | Egyptian Exchange (EGX) 30 Index 30937.69 Up +1.96% | Botswana Stock Exchange (BSE) DCI 9651.25 Same 0 | NSX: MTC 7.75 SAME | Anirep 8.99 SAME | Capricorn Investment group 17.34 SAME | FirstRand Namibia Ltd 49 DOWN 0.50% | Letshego Holdings (Namibia) Ltd 4.1 UP 2.50% | Namibia Asset Management Ltd 0.7 SAME | Namibia Breweries Ltd 31.49 UP 0.03% | Nictus Holdings - Nam 2.22 SAME | Oryx Properties Ltd 12.1 UP 1.70% | Paratus Namibia Holdings 11.99 SAME | SBN Holdings 8.45 SAME | Trustco Group Holdings Ltd 0.48 SAME | B2Gold Corporation 47.34 DOWN 1.50% | Local Index closed 677.62 UP 0.12% | Overall Index closed 1534.6 DOWN 0.05% | Osino Resources Corp 19.47 DOWN 2.41% | Commodities: Gold US$ 2 622.23/OZ UP +1.35% | Copper US$ 4.31/lb DOWN -0.0032 | Zinc US$ 2 884.80/T DOWN -0.23% | Brent Crude Oil US$ 74.74/BBP DOWN -0.0019 | Platinum US$ 976.09/OZ DOWN -0.0067